"My criteria is a matter of timing," she answers, matter of fact.

"If a herd of walkers rose up out of this water and you were too distracted or upset to do anything to save yourself, that would be whining. But that's not the case." She shrugs with her free shoulder.

"We can still be done if you want, but I need you to know it's not because I don't want to hear what's going on in your head."